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Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Day 2 – Money and preperation.





The following point is a point I faced in the past in relation to making the decision on having a baby in relationship with the money point. 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see and realize that Money is the most important point to consider when the Idea or decision making of having a baby comes into one’s Life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see and realize that without Sufficient money to support my life style plus a baby added I will have consequences that does not just affect me but also the Child and the Child’s life in total and thus the future of Life on earth.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to First look at LOVE and if the love within the relationship is good enough or not to have a baby and to only then look at money, instead of looking at – do we want a baby? Yes or no, and then to first look at practicality which is the point of money as the one thing that allows us to eat/drink have basic needs met daily.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to look at having a baby from a limited perspective of how I feel and how my partner feels and that is all that matters, instead of looking at the entire perspective which is within practicality and common sense where I consider the LIFE of the new Being that will/may be entering this world and how I and my Partner will be able to support and assist the new being to reach his/her full potential within NOT making money an Issue within the child’s life and what support the child will receive.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to Belief that real happiness isn’t all about money, seeing and realizing that having money isn’t about happiness it is about having sufficient support and assistance for oneself within the current system and to not suffer, and thus I see that if I base having a baby on this perspective of money doesn’t bring happiness so FUCK IT let’s have a baby – I am then deliberately already creating a life of fear and suffering where its unnecessary and preventable for the child that will create/produce a human/adult that will simply continue giving as what was given – fear and suffering.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that it is BAD and WRONG to make a decision such as having a baby based on money – seeing and realizing that this decision isn’t first based on money as the decision has to first be discussed within the agreement/relationship and then come to a YES/NO answer from both partners and to then from that decision look at the practical points and if they are in place or not such as Money being the first thing, and to then get everything practically in place first and then have a baby.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to belief that if my partner becomes pregnant without us planning it or have prepared for it that it is a gift from some higher form of life, when the truth is there was simply no protection used – and thus have about nine months to get our shit in place.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to belief that something such as having a baby must happen spontaneously for it to be seen as a sign that this is the right time – seeing and realizing that this spontaneous moment is really just due to irresponsibility and not considering actions and their consequences one and equal. 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to NOT consider the BIG picture as the world and to then take everything into consideration within the world, and then my life circles/relationships and my personal bubble, and to within this consider all dimensions to check if I am ready to be a father and to take the Full responsibility for another being within the current world and what’s here and to stand within that as a real decision where I can see My life and the life of the baby and where it will be in 50 years for example and if this decision right now can stand within being supportive within all areas of the babies life to be the best and to reach the fullest potential so that the child can with me bring about a world that is best for all life as being the Father/example.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see and realize that there are already Millions of children/babies without parents and homes and basic needs that isn’t close to being met, and thus it is my responsibility to bring a child into this world that will have all the basic needs met for my child and that there is no suffering for my child as this will add one more child to the list of correction, even if it means rather not having a child if the outflow will be that of abuse and suffering. 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see and realize that if I want to bring a child into this world that I must be fully aware of how the world functions and where the world is heading as it is currently - so that I know in full awareness what LIFE I am setting up for my child – and thus as I do see this - I see and realize also that it is up to me as a father or a father to be to bring about change within this world not just for my child but for ALL children and all life so that I know my child will live a life I never can/will, and yet give my life for this purpose as what is best for all life as a father.

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To be continued with Self corrective statements.

2 comments:

  1. Cool self-honesty and introspection Gian, thanks.

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  2. Thanks Gian - very cool & important points!

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